A couple of years ago I read the book The Art of the Deal by Donald Trump. I wrote down a few quotes that I liked. I am going to share some of those quotes with you. Sometimes with, other times without, any comment. I hope it ads some value.
“You don’t act on an impulse – even a charitable on – unless you’ve considered the downside.” Page 264
I have a few sayings that I live by. One that ties in with this quote is: No good deed goes unpunished. Isn’t it amazing how often it is the good things, the good things we do towards others that come back to bite us? On an impulse you feel sorry for a tenant and waive a condition of contract. Normally the requirement that they pay 2 months deposit. And then it is that tenant that really gives you trouble.
My uncle once said to me: “Piet, never do more for somebody than his mother would, because he cannot appreciate it.” I live by this saying. It makes so much sense. I am naturally very helpful, but I always remind myself of this saying.
I think the message of the Trump quote is very much the same. Don’t act on an impulse without considering the downside. What will the long-term effect be? Can you live with the long-term effect? Rather than doing something that you are going to regret, wait, think, consider and then make a well thought through decision.
A little bit of consideration can save you no end of trouble.